Live the life you want. Do the things that bring life, happiness and love into your life. So many of us keep ourselves from the life we want. Dream big and go for it. Every person that is living a life they want, started with a dream and an idea of what their life could look like and then they made small steps towards that dream. Don't stop to contemplate it or allow yourself or others to discourage you. Just keep taking the steps forward. Sometimes, we have to just go and not think so much, trusting a process and following it can lead us to our lives. If you are not living the life you wanted, I would argue because it's not your life. So go get YOUR life, one that is specific and precious to you. Be grateful for all of it, yes, but don't settle and don't get stuck. If you are stuck, start dreaming again and then take the small steps necessary to work towards a life you want. Don't allow anyone to take your life, not yourself, a partner, a fear, a parent or a stranger. You decide your life, you decide what you want. Dream big and go for it, that is what any other person has done that is living their life. Close your eyes and image yourself in your perfect life. What are you wearing, what does the environment feel like, what's around you and what are you doing in this life of yours. Hold tight to that image and refuse to let it go. Make steps towards achieving it, it's not about what anyone else is doing to you, for you, or around you, and it's everything about what do you want and how do you start to go for it. You deserve a life, and a life you love, now go get it!
Take care everyone and stay encouraged!