When we get hurt, it can be hard to remember that the person that hurt us has feelings too. Some times we can get so hurt that we can become cold or numb to the fact that the one who hurt us can be hurt by us. By thinking that those that hurt us are invincible, we can be callous, cold and down right hateful in the way we treat others. It can feel terrible when we realize that the person we have felt justified in treating poorly has feelings too. Often times if we are bullied, it can seem as though no one could be capable of feelings so it can escape us that our actions have impacts on others. We can be ugly in our behavior towards others and hurting others just hurts us. I hope the next we are hurt by someone, we take the time we deserve to try to understand how we are feeling and how the actions of another impacted us, but more importantly I hope that we can find a way to be certain that we do not cause the same type of pain to anyone. Stay whole, stay human, stay you... and refuse to become a person that hurts others no matter how hurt you may feel. Find a way to grieve, to heal and to move on.
Take care everyone and thanks for reading...